Friday, February 11, 2011

Certain Very Hot Places Are Going to Be Getting VERY Cold.....

Ok. So first I want to apologize for any freak weather occurrences next week. And I want to put out there that it's not ALL my fault. I can't possibly have the kind of power to influence the entire worlds weather patterns.

I can however influence SOME areas. I have been in talks with A/H through email about making changes that will benefit Jakes and us. Scary huh?  And we seem to have a deal.  Of course, I got snippy with him in the last email cause he was asking stupid questions that were answered in previous emails.

We started out talking about how to pay for the braces that Jakes needs and we have progressed to making serious changes to the visitation schedule.

By the end of the month everything should be set. The child support will be adjusted to reflect his portion of payment for the braces and Jakes will be set to spend every other summer with his dad and visit me on the weekends.   There are other little things in there but I still feel that I have to upper hand in the negotiations.

I am looking forward to some down time this summer. This last year has been difficult mentally and emotionally for me and Jakes. We are certainly on a good path now and I have confidence that we will continue that way.   Especially if I get the summer off.  It is Summer yet?


  1. Right on!!!

    Hey you wouldn't want to come broker a deal between me, the hubs and his CR ex wife, would you?

  2. Found your blog today...My son is 12 with ADHD and Asperger's. Great to know there are more of us out there!

  3. It's not here yet, but it's coming, and those talks are a good, good thing.

  4. Glad you all are working things out! I am ready for be off!

  5. nice...sounds like things are working out in your favor...keep talking...

  6. Great news! I hope everything works out for you.

  7. So glad things are working out for you! Can I come and visit this summer? LOL


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